Therapeutic Coaching & Mentoring

Child, Teen, Adult and Family Solutions

Handle life with more calm, confidence and control. Rewire unhelpful patterns. Think clearly. Strengthen your decision-making. Take action consistently.

Make your time, energy and responses work for you again.

You know what needs to be done, but you’re experiencing indecision. You revisit decisions and delay action or perhaps you move forward without full clarity only to question it later. You have  perhaps hired a business coach, but deep down, you know this isn’t about strategy. It’s about how you’re thinking and responding in the moment and the cost that’s having on your business.

You’re used to coping. But lately, pressure is influencing how you think and respond more than it should. You might notice that you are reacting emotionally,  instead of responding calmly. You’re feeling mentally stretched and challenged by things that shouldn’t have you feeling unsteady.

You’re getting things done but not in the way you want to. Decisions take longer than they should. You find yourself second-guessing, overthinking or hesitating in moments that used to feel straightforward. Nothing is obviously ‘wrong’,  but behind the scenes things feel harder and energies drained. 

It’s not the relationships themselves necessarily, it’s how you are handling yourself within them – with your partner, your children, your family, the people around you. Conversations linger and reactions don’t feel aligned. You may withdraw, overthink, snap or carry things longer than you want to. Over time this creates tension and misunderstanding.

Your child is worried and stressed every day at the prospect of going to school or perhaps they express their worry and stress during their day at school. You are aware of the distress they’re showing.

Your child is stressed about their exams and worried about their performance and outcomes. Impending national or entrance exams, or performing be it in the arts, like music and drama, are feeling worrisome for them.

Your child has expressed their difficulty about their friendships, or you as their parent have observed that they seem troubled and affected by the friendships and company they are keeping.

Your child has shared that they want someone to talk about a worry or concern that they have, and would appreciate talking with someone impartial and independent to help coach them in their situation.

Vidya Bellur

BA, MSc, Dip Hyp, GQHP, CNLP, CNHC

I work with adults, young people, and families who are capable, but not handling things the way they want to.

I help them to:

  • stop replaying conversations
  • stop second-guessing decisions
  • stop feeling thrown off for hours/days
  • stop overthinking simple things
  • stop carrying emotional residue

 

And instead:

  • deal with things calmly
  • feel settled quickly
  • trust their decision-making
  • move on without it lingering

 

Common areas I work in include: Anxiety, Stress, Low mood, Depression, Self-esteem. 

Get in touch today and discover how I can help you and your child or young adult.

Child, Teen, Adult and Family Solutions

Your child needs support for whatever they’re experiencing. As a parent you want to help them. ‘Child Spotlight’ is a 6 week programme that firmly puts your child at the heart of matter, giving them a non-judgemental and confidential space to work through their own unique experience and learn tools to equip themselves going forward.
You need support for whatever you’re experiencing. ‘Adult Years Spotlight’ is a 4 week programme that firmly makes you the priority, offering you a non-judgemental and confidential space to work through your own experience and learn some tools to equip yourself no matter what situation you face, as you go forwards in life.
Your child needs support for whatever they’re experiencing. As a parent you want to help them. ‘Teen Spotlight (12-16 years olds)’ is a 7 week programme that firmly puts your child at the heart of matter, giving them a non-judgemental and confidential space to work through their own unique experience and learn tools to equip themselves going forward.
Your child needs support for whatever they’re experiencing. As a parent you want to help them. ‘Teen Spotlight (16-18 years olds)’ is an 8 week programme that firmly puts your teen at the heart of matter, giving them a non-judgemental and confidential space to work through their own unique experience and learn tools to equip themselves going forward.

Client Testimonial

Vidya drastically helped me change my life and my outlook on it. Since the first session, I knew that she would be the one to help me, just from how well she listened to what I had to say and how she helped me understand that how I was feeling was ok and that I have it within me to change things.
Child
As a mother you expect that you will be the person that your child confides in and comes to when they have a problem and want to talk. But from my own experience as much as you can love your parents, sometimes they are not the ones you need. He was lost, confused, full of self doubt and anxiety. After sessions with Vidya, he is more confident in his ability to articulate his feelings and importantly talks through his emotions.
Parent